A Wedding Planner’s Wedding Bonus Blog:
I’m here writing to remind all brides that when you are getting stressed out about all the wedding details and plans, what you need to remember is: this is more than just a wedding, this is a marriage!
I will tell you now that yes, things will go wrong on your big day, but no, it is NOT the end of the world! You won’t remember that the DJ played a wrong song, or that the Vegan dessert was lost, or there was a type of flower that you didn’t like in your centerpieces.
What you will remember is the love that you felt, the sheer joy and happiness that the day will bring, and what the wedding really means. You are committing to one person for the rest of your lives; one person that you are promising to love forever, and that is no small thing!
Marriage is wonderful, it’s: having someone on your side, no matter what, never having to do the horrible things alone, getting to fall asleep and wake up to the person that you love the most, having someone to vent to when your day was bad, having someone to celebrate with when things are great, knowing the ins and outs of a person- what really makes them tick, realizing that your vows are really for better or worse, and walking hand in hand with the person you want to be beside forever.
Marriage is work, but it is the best kind of work there is, and it is not worth giving up on!
So when you are stressed beyond belief, dealing with RSVP’s and seating charts and napkin colors, remember that at the end of that very special day, those little things won’t really matter, but the life-long commitment that you made will!
Now go enjoy your time with your fiancé, and if you still need help, call on us professionals, and let US worry about the details!